1,2 or 3 is that so important?

if one day your girl friend tell you.in my heart you are not in the 1st place.em........ya rite.maybe no in the 1st place.but maybe you think in 2nd place.if she told you are no in 2nd place.1st place is family.can accept rite?2nd place you are not in.what will you think?maybe in your girl friend heart what place oso not that important.you just need her to know in your heart she is 1st place.sumtime things is like that.if you hope too much.maybe you cant get what you want.sumtime we have to let it be.too force is not a good things.